Stepparenting: Earn Their Trust
To have healthy relationships it really takes love and trust. One without the other doesn't make for a solid relationship. Now, especially for adopted children, foster children, and stepchildren trust opens the door to love. Build trust by being emotionally and physically safe to be around; by showing them that you are committed and you'll never leave them; and by loving them on their worst day. And be trustworthy. Be a person they can trust and you'll be a person they can love.
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About the Guest
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To have healthy relationships it really takes love and trust. One without the other doesn't make for a solid relationship. Now, especially for adopted children, foster children, and stepchildren trust opens the door to love. Build trust by being emotionally and physically safe to be around; by showing them that you are committed and you'll never leave them; and by loving them on their worst day. And be trustworthy. Be a person they can trust and you'll be a person they can love.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
Stepparents, don’t just aim for love, earn their trust.
Ron: Stepparents, don’t just aim for love, earn their trust.
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: You know, to have a healthy relationship with someone it really takes love and trust. One without the other doesn’t make for a solid relationship. Now, especially for adopted children, foster children, and stepchildren trust opens the door to love. So build trust by being emotionally and physically safe to be around; by showing them that you are committed and you’ll never leave them; and by loving them on their worst day.
Oh, yes, and be trustworthy. Your “yes” should live out to be a “yes,” and your “no” no. Be a person they can trust and you’ll be a person they can love. For FamilyLife Blended I’m Ron Deal.
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