Parenting Troubled Emotions 1
Kids are bothered about lots of things and it's all very real for them. And parents are tempted to minimize their troubled emotions. "I'm sure she didn't mean it." "Don't worry about missing the ball; it's just a game." Think about what's happening here. We're trying to talk our child out of feeling bad. Does that work with you? So here's what you do. Calm yourself as you listen, so you can calm them. Acknowledge their concerns. Then pray and hug them to show how concerned you really are.
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Kids are bothered about lots of things and it's all very real for them. And parents are tempted to minimize their troubled emotions. "I'm sure she didn't mean it." "Don't worry about missing the ball; it's just a game." Think about what's happening here. We're trying to talk our child out of feeling bad. Does that work with you? So here's what you do. Calm yourself as you listen, so you can calm them. Acknowledge their concerns. Then pray and hug them to show how concerned you really are.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
When our kids are troubled, it troubles us.
