Talking Blended: What Do I Call You?
When you marry into a family you have to figure out what to call extended family members. Sometimes you call your mother-in-law Mom, and sometimes you don't. Well, the same is true for blended families. The trick is figuring it out together. Ask things like, "How would you like to be introduced in public or with friends?" And, "At home, what term is most comfortable for you?" These questions will help you honor one another's preferences which ultimately makes you feel more like family.
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When you marry into a family you have to figure out what to call extended family members. Sometimes you call your mother-in-law Mom, and sometimes you don't. Well, the same is true for blended families. The trick is figuring it out together. Ask things like, "How would you like to be introduced in public or with friends?" And, "At home, what term is most comfortable for you?" These questions will help you honor one another's preferences which ultimately makes you feel more like family.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
You know, sometimes members of a stepfamily are confused about what to call each other.
