The Question of Guardianship
If you have minor children you need to answer that question. One dad wasn't sure what to do. His wife had died and now he was getting married. So, if he dies, should the stepmother be their guardian or those he and his first wife designated long ago? Who will the child trust and who is best positioned to lead them? In the beginning of a blended family that's likely not their stepparent but could become so in time. Don't base your decision on a dream but what's real and happening in your home.
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About the Guest
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If you have minor children you need to answer that question. One dad wasn't sure what to do. His wife had died and now he was getting married. So, if he dies, should the stepmother be their guardian or those he and his first wife designated long ago? Who will the child trust and who is best positioned to lead them? In the beginning of a blended family that's likely not their stepparent but could become so in time. Don't base your decision on a dream but what's real and happening in your home.
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Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and ...more
So, if both parents die who gets your kids?
Ron: So, if both parents die who gets your kids?
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: If you have minor children you need to answer that question. One dad just wasn’t sure what to do. You see, his wife had died and now he was getting married. So, if he dies, should the stepmother be their guardian or those he and his first wife designated long ago?
I think this question is best answered from the child’s point of view. Who will they trust and who is best positioned to lead them? In the beginning of a blended family that’s likely not their stepparent but could become so in time. Listen, don’t base this decision on your dream family base your decision on what’s real and what’s happening in your home. You can always change it as love grows. For FamilyLife Blended I’m Ron Deal.
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